You Are
Not Alone
A space for grief, trauma, and the complexities of being human.
Not to fix what has happened -
but to support you in living alongside it.
A space for grief, trauma, and the complexities of being human.
Not to fix what has happened -
but to support you in living alongside it.
A space for grief, trauma, and the complexities of being human.
Not to fix what has happened -
but to support you in living alongside it.
Beyond Us was never meant to exist.
But it does.
Beyond Us was never meant to exist.
But it does.
Beyond Us is a space created in the wake of loss — shaped by our experience of grief, trauma, and the systems that surround it.
It exists to offer support, connection, and understanding to those navigating some of life’s most difficult moments.
We are Tom and Ja,
partners in life - created this following the death of our daughter, Rae, in 2023.
We don't come to this as experts with answers, but as people who have lived through loss, and who understand how complex and isolating it can be.
In the spaces we hold, there is no expectation to have the right words, no pressure to move forward, and nothing that needs to be fixed.
We listen, we sit alongside, and we meet people wherever they are. If something here resonates with you, you are very welcome.
Beyond Us was never meant to exist.
But it does.
Beyond Us is a space created in the wake of loss — shaped by our experience of grief, trauma, and the systems that surround it.
It exists to offer support, connection, and understanding to those navigating some of life’s most difficult moments.
We are Tom and Ja,
partners in life - created this following the death of our daughter, Rae, in 2023.
We don't come to this as experts with answers, but as people who have lived through loss, and who understand how complex and isolating it can be.
In the spaces we hold, there is no expectation to have the right words, no pressure to move forward, and nothing that needs to be fixed.
We listen, we sit alongside, and we meet people wherever they are. If something here resonates with you, you are very welcome.
Ways We Can Support You
Ways We Can Support You
Recent Writing
Recent Writing
Reframing Grief
Grief is often described as a weight we carry. But what if we reframed that?
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Resilience Is Not Individual
I do not see myself as resilient or brave. These are labels often given by others to those moving through hardship.
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The One Grain Approach
Each of us carries our own hourglass — a reflection of our inner world.
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Reframing Grief
Grief is often described as a weight we carry. But what if we reframed that?
Read More
Resilience Is Not Individual
I do not see myself as resilient or brave. These are labels often given by others to those moving through hardship.
Read More
The One Grain Approach
Each of us carries our own hourglass — a reflection of our inner world.
Read More
The Podcast
Candid conversations about grief, trauma, mental health, and life after loss. Honest, unscripted, and deeply human.
The Podcast
Candid conversations about grief, trauma, mental health, and life after loss. Honest, unscripted, and deeply human.
Get in touch
We respond to all messages personally, and we take the time to do so carefully. You may not hear back immediately, but we will be in touch.
Whether you would like to find out more about the Inquest Forum, our work with organisations or simply want to say hello — please do reach out.
A note
If you are in crisis right now, please reach out to a crisis support service. In the UK, Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123, or by email at jo@samaritans.org.
Get in touch
We respond to all messages personally, and we take the time to do so carefully. You may not hear back immediately, but we will be in touch.
Whether you would like to find out more about the Inquest Forum, our work with organisations or simply want to say hello — please do reach out.
A note
If you are in crisis right now, please reach out to a crisis support service. In the UK, Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123, or by email at jo@samaritans.org.
Get in touch
We respond to all messages personally, and we take the time to do so carefully. You may not hear back immediately, but we will be in touch.
Whether you would like to find out more about the Inquest Forum, our work with organisations or simply want to say hello — please do reach out.
A note
If you are in crisis right now, please reach out to a crisis support service. In the UK, Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123, or by email at jo@samaritans.org.